HOW TO INFLUENCE PEOPLE IN FIRST MEET?

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IN TODAY’S WORLD EVERYONE WANT TO BE IN TOUCHED WITH EVERY PERSON THEY MEET.IT WOULD NOT BE WRONG SAYING THAT FROM OUR CHILDHOOD WE HEAR A STATEMENT THAT “FIRST IMPRESSION IS THE LAST IMPRESSION” WHICH HAS A LITERAL MEANING TO BE NICE EVERY-TIME BECAUSE EVERY NEXT PERSON IS NEW TO US AND SOMEWHERE, EACH OF US WANTS TO CREATE AN EXCELLENT IMPRESSION ON THE FACE NEXT TO US.

THE IDEA OF INFLUENCING SOMEONE DOES NOT MEAN THAT WE HAVE TO WORKOUT SOME LESSONS OR CHAPTERS.INFLUENCING SOMEONE MEANS TO REFLECT YOUR NATURE.

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WHY WE START TO JUDGE MANY OF THE PEOPLE WITHOUT KNOWING THEM,DOES IT ALWAYS MAKES ANY SENSE THAT EVERY STRANGER YOU MEET WILL OF BAD NATURE.

I KNOW THAT WE HUMAN ARE PROGRAMMED WITH MANY OF THE BELIEFS IN WHICH OUR CONTROLS ARE NOT YET DISCOVERED UNTIL WE DO IT.




INFLUENCING SOMEONE IN FIRST MEET IS JUST AS HOLDING EVERY UNKNOWN SMALL CHILD FOR THE FIRST TIME.COMPARE AND THINK OVER THE SITUATION WHAT I AM TRYING TO SAY.

IT IS QUITE COMMON IN US THAT WE HOLD ANY UNKNOWN BABY WITH SO MUCH OF CARE AND WITH A PROFOUND SMILE BECAUSE THAT’S ONLY THING WHICH EVERY PERSON KNOWS WELL THAT ONLY SMILE CAN MAKE YOU HOLD THAT SMALL CHILD BECAUSE IT’S YOUR FIRST IMPRESSION THE BABY’S HEART.

SO IF IT IS POSSIBLE WITH A SMALL CHILD THEN WHY NOT IN EVERY AGE?.THE BODY LANGUAGE IS AN= LANGUAGE THAT INDICATES AND REFLECTS OUR VIRTUE OF LIVING THE LIFE.

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THE WAY WE SPEAK,MOVE,BOUNCE BACK TO THOSE SUBSTANTIAL THINGS WHICH SOOTHES HEART OF OTHER IS ALWAYS PRESENT INSIDE US BUT THE REASON WHICH MAKES IT BURIED INSIDE IS THE IGNORANCE OF REALITY WHICH WE NEVER ACCEPT.

THE CATCHY STUFF OF INFLUENCE

I HAVE ENCOUNTERED MANY OF SUCH INCIDENTS IN MY MEMORABLE WHICH WAS MEMORABLE FOR ME BECAUSE I WAS SUCCESSFUL IN INFLUENCING EVERY PERSON I MET.

NOW COME ACROSS A REAL LIFE INCIDENT.IT WAS THE MONTH OF NOVEMBER AND DUE TO CHILLED WEATHER I SLEPT JUST 5 MINUTES MORE AFTER MY ALARM OF 5’O CLOCK WHICH TURNED IN TO 7’O CLOCK AND IT WAS LIKE TRAIN HAS DEPARTED FROM STATION AND I COULDN’T GO TO THE DESTINATION.

WITH A RUSH I QUICKLY WOKE UP AND GOT FRESHEN UP AND AS I USE TO GO BY TOWN BUS WHICH DEPART FROM BUS STOP AT 7:15 AM WHICH WAS THEN UNABLE TO CATCH SO I BOOKED A CAB AND WALKED OUT MY ROOM.

I REACHED NEAR THE CAB AND OPENED THE DOOR WITH A SMILE AS IT IS MY HABIT TO GREET EVERYONE BY SMILE CAME THERE.I SAT AND DIRECTED THE DRIVER TO GO FAST BECAUSE I WAS LATE. AS IT WAS A RIDE OF ABOUT 15 MINUTES FROM PICKUP LOCATION.I USE TO CARRY A PACK OF BISCUIT ALWAYS WITH ME.I STARTED TO EAT ONE AND WAS KNOWING VERY WELL THAT INFLUENCING SOMEONE CAN BE DONE BY MAKING A PLACE IN HIS/HER HEART.

I OFFERED HIM THE BISCUITS, AS HE WAS DRIVING HE REFUSED BUT I INSISTED HIM TO TAKE ONE, HE GAVE A SWEET SMILE AND TOOK ONE FROM PACK, THE CONDITION THAT A DRIVER AND RIDER WAS TWO UNKNOWN PERSON WERE INFLUENCING EACH OTHER WITH THEIR NATURE.WE TALKED FOR ALL THE WAY HE DROPPED ME OUTSIDE THE COLLEGE GATE EVEN THE RIDE WAS OVER AND WAVED HIS HAND TO GIVE A MEMORIZING SEE OFF.

IT WAS NOT A PLANNED ENCOUNTER BUT IT WAS A COINCIDENCE BECAUSE, I SUCCEEDED TO INFLUENCE HIM AND JUST TO INFLUENCE HIM AND JUST BY MY NATURE NOTHING ELSE.

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I KNOW THAT EVERYONE THINKS THAT EVEN AFTER BEING GOOD SOMETIME, WE GET NEGATIVE RESPONSE FROM OTHER BUT REMEMBER WHENEVER YOU MAKE A STEP TOWARDS ACHIEVEMENTS AND AWARDS KEEP IT INSIDE BECAUSE EXHIBITING YOUR SUPERIORITY WILL NOT INFLUENCE ANYBODY IT CAN ONLY BE POSSIBLE BY OUR NATURE AND THE WORDS WE SPEAK FOR THE FIRST TIME.




I BELIEVE THAT EVERY HUMAN HAVE THEIR NATURE OF PURITY WHICH IS SOMEHOW DIVERTED BY SOME OTHER FACTORS.TRY TO BE YOURSELF AND KEEP YOUR IMAGE SUCH THAT YOUR VOICE CAN BECOME ENOUGH TO INFLUENCE SOMEBODY.

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