Make Your Every Defeat Temporary


One of the biggest fear in our life is facing a defeat. Whenever we quit for some problem then the outcome come as a defeat. Every situation can be solved with enthusiasm to overcome it but the misconception of our programmed mind shows us a picture that we are weak to fight against it.


The concept of defeat is always temporary and our weakness makes it permanent. Remember this always that our whole life is full of tragedy, but these tragedies are held in two forms, for some people it’s like a comedy because they take it easily and for some people it act as a remedy for every problem.

Whenever there is bit of doubt in our working we feel that now we cannot move forward just because we take it as a defeat and we keep it permanent.

Why does this happen with us that even if all the solutions roam around us then also it comes as a great barrier? In every single second there comes a new thought in our mind but the problem is that when the selection of the thoughts which are really beneficial to us comes as a hard thing of all.

The criteria in which a person fails to judge his/her potential is totally different form every person he/she meets. The actual fact lies within our mind, the concept of retrieving the power of our mind helps us to fight against the failures and defeat.


Now let me tell you one real life experience which will convey the actual idea of making your defeat temporary.

It was the time when I was in standard 12th and was delivering my first speech in assembly in front of more than 500 students and that time also I believe that aroma of a speech should indicate the confidence of the person by heart and just the opposite happened with me. That day I was like lost anywhere seeing so much people in front of me and just forgot all the stuffs which where yet to come.

That moment was the first and last defeat for me because when I was back to home I realized that whatever happened with me was just because of me only no other person was responsible. I felt as if I cannot speak anything in my life next time in front of so many people.


The miracle happened after 15 days of that disaster, guess what, the next time on stage and this time I was not worried at all because I was not having any paper to feed on.

The whole of the speech delivered by me was in Hindi and it was from my heart and you will believe or not that day everyone in the school was exclaimed to see that speech and there was a great sound of applause for 2 minutes and I realized that defeat is part of the journey the option is in our hands, whether we have to keep it temporary or permanent.


It might surely happen that my article may be of no use and might be ignored my many of you but I will take this ignorance as my temporary defeat whether I get slangs or claps.

“Don’t pray for the easy life

Pray for the strength to endure the difficult one”


Ajay Kumar

Author | Entrepreneur | Motivational Speaker | Life Coach | Business Coach


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